In this day and age, the media encourages narcissism, emotion is considered weak, and selfishness and individualism reign strong so it seems finding love is virtually impossible. With the myriad of mixed and confusing signals we receive every day; it starts to feel like finding a soul-mate is like searching for a needle in a haystack. But it happens! Indeed it does. If history, the arts, and humanities have taught us anything over the years, it is that love is real and possible. This website aims to help you make sense of it all and navigate the world of romance. Whether it’s dating tips, finding love in the most unexpected places or getting over a heart-break, you’ll find it all here on corrosiveheart.org.

Believe

So you’ve been on failed dates, lived through disastrous relationships, had your heart broken one too many times and you just don’t seem to be able to find love or get your head around the dating game. Just about ready to give up on it all? Stop right there. You need to believe in love and, more importantly, believe you deserve it. If you don’t believe, it won’t happen to you.

Self- love

You deserve love, so start with loving yourself instead of waiting around for someone to give you love. By loving yourself, you will reestablish faith in love and start to better understand what love really means. Don’t waste time searching for something if you don’t know what you’re looking for or what you want. The answers are within you.

Don’t settle

Establish what it is you want and believe that ‘good things come to those who wait’. Don’t waste time getting distracted from your goal of self-love. Focus on other things and don’t dwell on your solitude, enjoy it. Do things that make you happy and work on yourself. You’re more likely to find ‘the one’ while doing the things that you love. Chances are you’ve been looking in the wrong places for far too long and stressing out about it as a result and hurting your chances. It’s bound to happen. You will meet your significant other. Time is relative, so when is simply up to you. When you do, you will know, so don’t settle on just anyone, it’s just a waste of time and energy.